Category Archives: Ramblings of Thanks

My birthday falls on Thanksgiving this year (anyone looking for a last minute gift, cash or gift cards to the Home Depot are welcome), and to celebrate, I’m going to reprise something for the blog that many of us did on Facebook last year. Each day, I will center my blog around something in my life I am thankful for. In this manner, I will attempt to be more grateful for the many blessings in my life. Hopefully, this series will provide a little positivity and inspiration to your day.

Sunday Afternoon Ramblings – Thankful #14

I’m thankful to be a Steelers fan.  For those of us of my generation who cheer for the Black and Gold, there’s more to it than just the quality of football on the field.  Yes, we have more Super Bowl victories than anyone else.  Yes, we’ve appeared in Super Bowls in four consecutive decades.  Yes, we’ve sent a plethora of players to the Hall of Fame.  But there’s more to being a diehard Steelers fan than just winning.

The Chief, Art Rooney, was the epitome of what a successful person should be: humble, down-to-earth, kind, generous, and loyal.  He was, in the words of Terry Bradshaw, “A good king.”  When Dan Rooney took over the helm, he has continued his father’s legacy of embodying decency while maintaining success.  Dan Rooney is the man who pushed for racial equality in the league where 70% of the players are African-American but nearly all of the head coaches and literally all of the owners are white.  He then followed through on his scruples by hiring a young, unproven African-American in Mike Tomlin, who in turn rewarded the Rooneys by winning the team’s sixth Super Bowl.

The haters will chime in with jeers about Ben Roethlisberger’s off the field indiscretions and how that has tarnished the Steelers’ image.  My only response is that while Big Ben has behaved stupidly and immaturely in his life, he has not been charged with any crimes.  A more telling illustration of what the organization stands for comes from the mid-90’s.  Bam Morris was a rising star at running back and a perfect fit for Coach Cowher’s smash-mouth style.  During the off-season, he was caught with an absurd amount of marijuana in his trunk, obviously for resale, and the team immediately released him, declaring that there was no room on the team for that kind of character.  Around the same time, Michael Irvin was arrested in a hotel room with cocaine and hookers.  Cowboys owner Jerry Jones scrambled to do damage control with the media and made every effort to sweep the incident under the rug.

In 1988, my junior year in high school, the Steelers went 5-11, the team’s worst record in my lifetime.  Every day, I wore my Steelers hat proudly.  I was still grateful to be a Steeler even though the team was not winning right then, and in my experience, most Steelers fans feel the same way.  Many fans of other teams (locally the Titans come to mind) are fair-weather fans, proud to wear their gear when the team is good but quick to don another team’s jersey when the record slides.  The difference is because the Steelers embody more than just performance–it’s about a mindset of how to conduct yourself in good times and bad.  It’s about being proud of being blue-collar.  It’s about digging in deep when things get tough.  That’s what the Steelers mean to me, and I’m thankful to call myself a Steelers fan.

Saturday Night Ramblings – Thankful #13

I’m thankful for my health.  While I have been dealing with some serious issues with my blood pressure over the last year, I am still for the most part a fairly healthy person.  I’ve trimmed four inches off my waist in the last seven months, and I feel as strong and healthy as I’ve felt in many years.  I still have a couple of inches to go before I get to my goal, but I’m on the way and will get there.

I’m eating better than I’ve ever eaten in my life.  I have a protein shake and bar for breakfast, both low sugar and low calorie, usually a Subway sandwich on whole wheat for lunch, another shake and bar for an afternoon meal, and usually a salad for supper.  I’ve cut out all between meal snacks and do not eat any sugar at all.  I’ve also completely stopped drinking all sodas.  That was a difficult step, but since I’ve done it, I feel incredibly better.

Right now, the biggest obstacle to my overall good health is the immense stress of work.  Once I can escape that, I’ll be much better off, but I’m thankful that I’m a pretty healthy person with very few issues to contend with.  In that manner, I’m truly a blessed person.

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Friday Morning Ramblings – Thankful #12

I’m thankful for the teachers who shaped me into the person I am today.  The impact these people had on my life cannot be overstated.  Ms. Whimer (it’s been 30 years so I may have misspelled that) was my third grade teacher who pushed me to challenge myself.  She was a wonderful teacher with a lot of patience and concern for our well-being.  Mrs. Fontana, may she rest in peace, taught me in fourth and fifth grades.  She more than anyone instilled in me a love of reading, and she as much as anyone is why I became a writer.  The world is a worse place without her in it, and a full generation of students missed out on a wonderful teacher because she left us way too soon.

Mr. Thiessan was my Industrial Arts teacher in both seventh and eighth grades, and the best teacher I’ve ever encountered on any level.  I owe that man more than I can express because he saw potential in me that no one else at that point in my life noticed.  My family went through some very hard times during those two years, and without his guidance, commitment to standards, passion for knowledge, and dedication to his job, I might have fallen through the cracks.  He sparked my creativity and allowed me to flourish on my own.  I am certain that without him, I would not have the skills I have today.

Mrs. LaFever was both my freshman and senior English teacher.  She was tough, demanding, overbearing, critical, sometimes mean, sometimes snide, but always passionate.  She held us to the highest of standards and accepted nothing less than our best.  I learned more about the English language from her than anyone else and am grateful for her unwavering commitment.

Dr. Armstrong and Ms. Kell were my biggest influences at WSCC.  They pushed me to broaden my thinking and express my thoughts clearly.  They pushed me out of the nest and forced me to spread my wings.  Without them, I wouldn’t have discovered my voice.

I had several excellent teachers at the University of Memphis, and I don’t want to leave any one individual out.  As an undergraduate, I learned who I was and just how much I could accomplish.  I grew and flourished more during those years than just about any other time in my life, and I am grateful to those educators for pushing me so hard and demanding so much from me.

Education is the skill of drawing out of individuals what they are capable of doing, and I am thankful that my life was touched so deeply by so many outstanding teachers.  Too often, educators are not given thanks for their service to our country, so to all of the professional educators who have dedicated their lives to the betterment of others, thank you for all you’ve done for us.