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Ramblings of Thanks 2011


Today, I’m thankful for many things.  I have two wonderful sons who call me nearly every night to talk and play games.  I have both of my parents who are still here to enjoy this day with me.  I have a great sister and four amazing nieces.  I have some of the best friends a man could wish for.  I also have some great extended family members who care for me and encourage me.  I have a steady job with good benefits.  I have an excellent new publisher that works hard to produce a quality product and generates promotion and marketing campaigns for their books.  All of these are my reasons for thanks.

I’m also thankful for the years I got to share with my grandparents.  Nobody can make you feel loved the way a grandparent can, and I’m blessed to have had Carl, David Sr., Betty Jo, and Helen as mine.

I’m thankful for my readers, who give me the reason to keep writing my books and this blog.  Without them, I would have given up long ago.  I’m thankful for the ability to write and all of the teachers who honed my skills.

Most of all, I am thankful for my life, which nearly ended 23 years ago.  I’m grateful for all these years, even the difficult ones.  Happy Thanksgiving everyone.  Thank you for being part of my life.

 

Friday Morning Ramblings

This is one of my favorite moments of my professional career.  In part, of course, because I got to meet John Rhys-Davies, but also because I got to share it with my niece, Brianna.  This picture was taken at my first fandom convention, and I’ll cherish this moment for the rest of my life.  I was a completely unknown, self-published author with a book cobbled together as cheaply as possible, but luckily for me, I was too dumb to realize or care that many considered me a joke.  Also, luckily, Marcus Wollack had given me a table directly across from the main stars, including John Rhys-Davies, Robert Englund, and Adam West.

All day, I watched Mr. Rhys-Davies’ line, waiting for a break in the crowd, and finally, in the afternoon, his line had dwindled to a handful, so I grabbed a copy of my book, quickly signed it to him, and rushed to his line.  As much as anything, his acting as Gimli had inspired me to write my series, and I just wanted to give him a copy to express my gratitude.  He graciously accepted the gift but refused to let me leave empty-handed, so he signed a promo-shot of Gimli and shook my hand.

A few minutes later, his girlfriend/manager (I’m not certain which or both) came by my table to thank me, and while we were talking, she noticed my “The Brotherhood of Dwarves” T-shirts.  Immediately, she wanted to get him one, mostly as a lark, and I handed one over without hesitating.  She offered to pay, but I refused.  Again, I felt I owed him for the inspiration.  She thanked me again and left.  A few minutes later, she returned, telling me that he would not accept a free gift and demanded I return to his table.  I tried to explain to him that I didn’t want anything in return, but he insisted and asked if I had a camera.  Fortunately, my good friend Tilman Goins, who was in the booth beside mine, had brought his.  Mr. Rhys-Davies posed for several pictures, mostly of him feigning to read my book and then motioned for Brianna and me to come around the table and pose with him.

An hour or so later, he personally came over to my booth to thank me again for the T-shirt.  He also told me that he had flipped through the first few pages, skimming the text.  “You’re one hell of a writer,” he said.  “I’m given books like this all the time, and usually they’re complete rubbish, but you really can write.”  For an unknown, self-published author with fragile confidence, it was a feeling of validation that I can’t describe.  I don’t know if he was merely being nice or if the words were sincere, but I don’t really care.  He made me feel like a real writer who deserved to be published, and that meant more to me than anything.

Those pictures of him reading sold many books for me at future shows, but the memory means more to me than any numbers of sales.  He didn’t have to do any of that, but he took the time to be kind to a complete stranger.  I hope one day to meet him again and express my thanks for that small act of kindness that has given me so much over the years.

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Sunday Evening Ramblings

Last night, Mari took me to a birthday party for the father of a good friend of hers.  The man, who turned 90, immigrated from Spain to Cuba in his early 20’s and, then, fled Castro’s dictatorship at 45.  At 90, he is more vibrant, more full of life, and more full of joy than most people I’ve encountered, despite having experienced so much turmoil and difficulty in his lifetime, and his party was a celebration of Spanish heritage and Cuban culture.  The teenagers danced traditional dances, and everyone sang Spanish songs.  His daughter-in-law told jokes, and he relished the youth and energy, smiling all night.  In short, it was a wonderful experience.

His and his son’s lives are symbols of all that makes this nation so wonderful.  Paco, the father, was welcomed into our nation to escape a totalitarian regime that controlled every aspect of its citizens lives.  Once here, he worked hard to provide for his children and offer them better lives than he had.  Frank, the son, studied accounting in college and has built a very successful real estate business.  He is proud of his Hispanic heritage and embraces that culture as his roots, but he is first and foremost an American.  Whenever I am around him, I soak up his intelligence and passion for life.  He’s a living, breathing example of the American Dream.

Last night was a great experience for me, and I’m grateful for the opportunity to have been welcomed into their home and allowed to share in their celebration.  Life is a beautiful thing, and I’m a fortunate person to have such so many great friends, family that loves me, and the two best sons a man could ask for.